The “wedding of the century” between American billionaire Jeff Bezos and former news anchor Lauren Sánchez is not only a lavish event that captured global attention but also a clear reflection of how modern society reacts to the love lives of public figures. Across social media, thousands of contrasting opinions have poured in. Most revolve around the bride’s appearance—often harshly compared to conventional standards—and some even poke fun at the “unusual taste” of the billionaire groom. Many wonder why a man as powerful, wealthy, and well-known as Jeff Bezos would choose someone like Lauren Sánchez, who doesn’t fit many people’s stereotypical idea of beauty, who is not young, and who has gone through a previous marriage. But maybe this is the moment we should ask ourselves: whose eyes are we seeing through? And why do we feel entitled to judge someone else’s choice?
German philosopher Immanuel Kant once said, “Beauty is not in the rosy cheeks of the maiden, but in the eyes of the beholder.”—a statement that still holds true through centuries, for every couple in the world, no matter their fame or fortune. Love is not a beauty contest, nor is it a mathematical equation to weigh factors like age, looks, past relationships, or social status. True love is something felt deeply by the heart. It draws us to another person for reasons that are often deeply personal, often unexplainable by logic.
In the case of Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez, both individuals have gone through significant life experiences. They have basked in the glow of success, endured the wounds of previous marriages, and faced the emotional highs and lows of life. As we age, we no longer choose life partners for superficial reasons. We look for empathy, for understanding, and for the quiet strength of someone who makes us feel safe—someone who truly gets us. Perhaps Lauren reached a place in Jeff’s heart that no one else could, and that, in itself, is enough to validate their love.
What’s unfortunate is that, while the couple celebrates their love through a highly personal and symbolically rich wedding, the public focuses on irrelevant details. People obsess over the bride’s appearance or debate Bezos’ “taste” in partners, forgetting the fundamental principle of respecting someone else’s happiness. Whether rich or poor, famous or not, everyone deserves to love and be loved, to choose freely without scrutiny.
Few people notice that the wedding of Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez goes beyond a personal celebration—it also delivers a broader message about wealth and social contribution. In recent years, Bezos has not only invested in space exploration through Blue Origin but has also dedicated billions to philanthropy, environmental causes, and education. Sánchez is also actively involved in media and charitable work. Behind this couple is a larger ecosystem of value creation, job opportunities, technological advancements, and meaningful social impact. If we focus only on their faces or designer outfits, we miss the humanistic and inspiring aspect of their journey.
We often lament why our lives aren’t as beautiful or fulfilling as others’. But have we ever asked: are we truly seeing the beauty in our own lives? Or are we too busy fixating on what we lack, constantly comparing, and letting envy blind us? Happiness doesn’t come from comparison—it comes from gratitude, self-awareness, and the ability to invest in personal growth. Instead of judging others’ choices, why not spend more time becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, understand, and respect both self and others?
Love is a journey, and no one knows the destination in advance. But what makes that journey meaningful and lasting is sincerity, connection, and mutual respect. In a world where everything is digitized and judgment is instant, for two people to love each other, to get married, to choose one another despite what the world may say—that takes courage. Perhaps, instead of criticizing a billionaire’s choice in love, we should admire their bravery.
Ultimately, what makes life worth living isn’t how many people approve of us, but whether we have the courage to live true to our hearts. And maybe, when we begin to see life through the lens of empathy, everything starts to change—including how we love, choose, and find happiness in ourselves.
